The holidays are one of the few times each year when families visit nursing homes in larger numbers. Loved ones come together, routines shift, and facilities often operate with reduced staff or temporary workers. While the season brings joy and connection, it can also reveal issues families may not notice during the rest of the year.
At Baron, Herskowitz & Cohen, we frequently see an increase in nursing home abuse and neglect cases reported around the holidays. Families who haven’t seen their relatives in weeks or months may suddenly notice signs that something is wrong.
Here’s what to understand, what to look for, and what to do if you suspect a loved one is being mistreated.
Why Nursing Home Abuse Increases During the Holidays
Several yearly patterns make residents more vulnerable between Thanksgiving and New Year’s:
1. Staffing Shortages
Facilities often operate with fewer staff during the holidays due to:
- Employee vacations
- Seasonal turnover
- Reliance on temporary or agency staff
- Fewer supervisors on site
Reduced staffing can lead to neglect, medication errors, and delayed assistance.
2. Higher Stress on Remaining Staff
Overworked or untrained workers may cut corners, skip safety checks, or become impatient with residents who need help.
3. Disrupted Routines
Holiday events, visiting hours, and schedule changes can throw off medication times, meals, hygiene care, and mobility assistance.
4. Residents Left Alone More Often
Some residents may not receive visitors over the holidays, making them particularly vulnerable to emotional abuse or ignored care needs.
Common Signs of Nursing Home Abuse to Look For During Holiday Visits
Families often spot these warning signs when visiting in person:
Physical Indicators
- Unexplained bruises, cuts, or fractures
- Sudden weight loss or dehydration
- Bedsores or skin infections
- Poor hygiene or unchanged clothing
Behavioral Changes
- Withdrawal or nervousness around staff
- Sudden mood shifts or fearfulness
- Confusion that is new or worsening
- Hesitation to speak about daily life
Environmental Red Flags
- Strong odors (urine, unclean bedding)
- Residents left unattended
- Excessive noise or disorganization
- Staff appearing rushed, irritated, or unavailable
Medication Concerns
- Missed doses
- Overmedication (sleepiness, unresponsiveness)
- Complaints of pain not being addressed
If something feels “off,” it’s important to trust that instinct.
How the Holidays Can Reveal Neglect or Poor Care
Families who typically call or check in from afar may see different realities when visiting:
- Loved ones may look weaker or less alert than expected.
- Rooms may appear unclean or poorly maintained.
- Staff may struggle to answer simple questions about care routines.
- Residents may express loneliness, fear, or frustration.
These in-person visits, even if brief, can be crucial moments to identify problems early.
What to Do If You Suspect Nursing Home Abuse or Neglect
If you notice concerning signs during a holiday visit, taking immediate action can protect your loved one and others in the facility.
1. Document What You See
Take photos of injuries, unsafe conditions, or unclean surroundings. Write down dates, times, names, and any conversations with staff.
2. Ask Direct Questions
Speak with nurses, supervisors, or administrators:
- When was the resident last bathed?
- Are they eating regularly?
- When was medication last given?
- Who is responsible for their care today?
3. Visit at Different Times
Stopping by during mornings, evenings, or weekends may paint a more accurate picture of daily conditions.
4. Report Concerns Immediately
If you believe your loved one is in immediate danger, contacting authorities or moving them temporarily may be necessary.
5. Speak With an Experienced Nursing Home Abuse Attorney
These cases can be complex, especially when facilities attempt to deflect blame or withhold records. An attorney can help:
- Review medical records
- Investigate staff conduct
- Preserve evidence
- Determine the facility’s liability
- Protect your loved one’s rights
Protecting Your Loved Ones This Holiday Season
Holiday visits are an opportunity to ensure that your loved ones are receiving the care, dignity, and respect they deserve. If you see signs of neglect or abuse, Baron, Herskowitz & Cohen is here to help you take the next step.
Our team has extensive experience handling cases involving nursing home neglect, physical abuse, emotional abuse, medication errors, and unsafe living conditions. We’re dedicated to protecting vulnerable residents and holding facilities accountable.
